Dr. Jerry D. Lamb
THE FIVE STAGES
A five stage approach is utilized, ensuring that your experience with me is optimal. Our purpose for working together is so that you feel well and grow prosperously. This process of cultivating how you think and interpret your experiences will lead you down a path of mental freedom and internal empowerment.
Stage One: Sharing
This is the first step in which you share why you are seeking a life coach. As you travel your own path you will encounter many forks in the road, however at this moment in time you are here reading this text for a reason. What event, situation or circumstance has occurred, in which you are seeking tranquility? Everybody has a story and it is at this stage that you must share that story. Sharing your story will not only open the rivers that will relive the pressure from within but it will provide for fertile grounds for your future ideas and creations.
Stage Two: Pairing
Synergy is an important element of ensuring your growth. Our journey together will be for a period of time and therefore our atonement between each other is essential for effective communication. Think of our interaction as walkie talkies with a dial, in which we are trying to start out on the same frequency. When our pairing is clear we can do many things efficiently, however, when it is poor, frustration and misinterpretation can set resulting in poor results.
Stage Three: Exploring
Following the principle that everything happens for a reason, together we will explore various challenges, patterns and experiences that you have encountered. What may seem like disconnected events are really pieces of a big picture that you created before you began this life’s journey. Simply put, you have hidden treasure and you put together a series of clues and indicators that will allow you to return one day to reclaim what is rightfully yours. You, however, have been away so long that landscape has changed and your memory is vague.
Stage Four: Creating
We are creative beings and as a result, we are constantly creating either consciously or subconsciously. Focusing your creative energy in critical moments not merely provides for desired results, but equally significant is that it is performed with less energy and less opposition. Patience, wisdom, grace and other virtues are applied during this process. Many misinterpret creations as instant because we live in modern times. With the growth of technology, however, the universe just like the human body, works rythmatically. Essentially what I am saying is that you need not rush this process because you want to be “in time” as oppose to “on time.” Connecting with your internal vortex allows you enjoy your creative experiences.
Stage Five: Experiencing
Appreciation is the key to receiving more of what it is that you have created. There are many things in life that we take for granted because of where and how we live. It’s like eating at your favorite restaurant and finishing your meal in less than 10 minutes after it was delivered. We don’t think about the process, which is equally important for the “depth” of the experience. The people that you love with all your heart both past and present, do you value the quality of a long or short experience? Appreciation for the “depth” of the process creates an experience of equal depth. Hence, since what you were given, was received and experienced, that same quality process must be replenished. This is the endless cycle of harmony.